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There is no pressure to perform, fit a stereotype or change who you are. We build genuine friendships through shared experiences, honest conversations and values-led community.

Shoulder to Shoulder welcomes men from every background, religion, age and sexuality. You simply need to respect our values of authenticity, ambition, connection, growth and respect.

Not at all. Many members arrive alone for their first event, and our friendly hosts will help you feel welcomed, comfortable and included from the beginning.

You will receive clear event details before arriving and be welcomed by a host. Come as you are, join at your own pace and enjoy meeting new people.

We organise more than 25 events each month designed to bring people together through shared experiences and meaningful conversations. From community walks and social evenings to book clubs, bowling, food gatherings and wellbeing activities, there are always opportunities to meet new people and build genuine friendships.

Our community walks remain free to access. Full membership includes a 30-day free trial, after which a subscription provides access to additional events, benefits and the complete community hub.

Please contact Dan or Tom directly. We follow a trust-based, no-questions-asked approach for anyone whose circumstances make paying for membership difficult.

No. We are a social community focused on friendship, belonging and meaningful connection. Although members often experience positive wellbeing benefits, we do not replace professional mental health support.

Most connection happens through in-person events across London. Members can also use our private online community hub to discover events, continue conversations and arrange informal meet-ups.

Visit our Join S2S page, choose the membership option that suits you and create your community profile. You can then explore upcoming events and begin connecting with members.